
How does a person counsel self? There are various ways, but one must begin by insisting on stepping outside the skin, looking into the self with the attitude that I am going to be a bit stern with myself. By stern, I mean stern enough. To set up a goal that is beyond one’s competency is fruitless, may discourage improvement perhaps worsen the context needing attention. In many situations issues are better treated in incremental steps, so to gain some momentum for problem solving. It is enough to create a discipline that gains a good and proper end. Probabilities and possibilities are marvelous aids in moving toward a desirable goal. Most desirable goals require some payment of dues that come… Read more







